Appreciate most of what you've shared here, but I sincerely do not believe we can "define our Selves."

I have been defined more by circumstances I could never have ever been able to create than anything else that has happened in my life, and the most profound of those events were premonitions, guidance, and synchronicity.

Those events did not come from me. I had no idea they were even possible, so I feel like this kind of statement creates confusion.